Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
When Jesus taught people how to pray, He didn't start with a request. He started with a relationship: "Our Father in heaven." Everything else in the prayer — the kingdom, the will being done — comes after that word, not before it.
That ordering matters. If prayer were mainly about getting things from God, you'd expect the asking to come first. Instead, Jesus puts the relationship at the very front, as if the point of prayer isn't primarily to extract an answer but to actually address someone — someone He calls Father, not landlord or judge or distant manager.
Maybe "Father" is a loaded word for you, good or bad, depending on your own story. Either way, it's worth noticing that this is the word Jesus chose to open the most famous prayer ever taught. Whatever else prayer is, He seems to be saying it starts with being known, not just with being heard.
If the word "Father" brings up complicated feelings for you, it might be worth exploring what Jesus actually meant by it before writing it off.
A short video on this is coming soon — for now, read on.